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Coachella 2025 Vlog

“Beep beep let’s ride”, (Vroom Vroom, Charli xcx) come with me to weekend 2 of Coachella 2025. I had so much fun and I want to share it with everyone! That way you can get a little taste of what Coachella has to offer and see why you need to make sure you’re going next year. This was my first year going and I guarantee you I’ll be returning next year because of how amazing this experience was. Myself personally prioritized the music and concerts, and not as much the pop up stuff. So, if you’re a music lover you’re definitely going to want to see what you’re future experience could look like! Please enjoy ❤

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Authenticity, Creativity, and Social Media

A Personal Approach to Social Media Marketing

As I finish up my last social media marketing class, as well as my last semester at Ventura College, I have to look back and think on what I’ve learned and what I need to continue to learn. And for the first time in my life, I am not going down the path of refined essays and polished projects. I have discovered a lot about myself during my time at VC, especially through fully embracing the messiness of an amateurly edited YouTube video. And what better way to sum up everything I’ve learned both socially and professionally than with an in-depth look at the social media profiles of myself and others? For a month, I posted once a day on my Instagram, trying to imitate the creators and businesses I admire in search of a version of myself that can authentically and creatively relate to audiences. So please enjoy this weird video about a weird person and her weird journey to produce authentic and creative social media content.

And please excuse the video’s less-than-HD quality and lack of music. Hopefully, it can only get better from here!

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New York City Vlog

Come along as I spend 10 days in New York City, from going to sporting events to exploring New York’s iconic parks all while having a great time! Video Out Now, On VC Social YouTube Channel!

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VVicked Album Release Show Recap

On April 25th, 2025 family, friends, and music lovers gathered at Gibson’s Neighborhood Bar in Downtown Ventura to celebrate VVicked’s album release party. The supporting acts included 4mor and Girldad. Comatose Treats also had a table to sell some delicious cookies. Read until the end to see some awesome pics and watch the concert coverage!

This event was put on by a group of students from Ventura College who were participating in Professor Nick Norris’s Digital Marketing class. These students included Marilyn Huitron, Raya Whittington, Cristian Vasquez, and Iliana Renteria.

Photo Credit: Iliana Renteria

The first performer was 4mor, also known as Cris. Not only was he the opener, he also helped put the show together. Cristian performed songs from his first EP that just dropped April 15th! Cris describes his music as alternative indie. During his set, he brought out another local artist, Ahmod, and they performed their song together. Not only was Cristian celebrating his first ever live performance, he was also celebrating his birthday!

Photo Credit: Iliana Renteria

Next up was Girldad, a larger band made up of six members: Ava, Elizabeth (Lizzy), Vanessa, Crystal, Javier, and Jasmine. While at first they seem like a typical local band, there is a sweet twist to them. The band consists of three sisters, their father, and two friends!

Photo Credit: Iliana Renteria

Each member of Girldad had their own distinct style and embodied the look and feel of a 2000s punk band from a movie. Their set consisted of mostly covers, reimagined to fit their own unique style. The songs they covered ranged from a variety of artists and genres, such as Hombres G and Letters to Cleo, showing how versatile they are.

Last, but certainly not least, our headliner VVicked performed! Their set included songs from their new album Gum Tree II: Better on Paper.

Photo Credit: Iliana Renteria

Gum Tree was their original EP that was released two years ago and included six songs. After realizing they wanted to improve the quality of the original songs, they decided to redo the recordings and add eight songs in total to create their album!

Elijah, Rya, and Sam (aka VVicked) record, produce, and master all their own music themselves right from their garage! While the band’s genre typically falls into the larger genre of alternative garage rock, they also explore genres such as psychedelic, surf rock, and punk.

Photo Credit: Iliana Renteria

As for vendors, were happy to have Comatose Treats set up a table and sell some delicious Cinnamon Sugar Smackdown cookies. Comatose Treats is a local cookie brand owned and created by Devonte Stepter. These are not your grandma’s plain cookies, Stepter has added his own flavor to the otherwise traditional recipes.

Photo Credit: Iliana Renteria

Although Chiques FC was unfortunately unable to vend at the event after all, you should still check them out! Chiques FC is a clothing brand that is run by Ian Hernandez, who also creates his own designs.

Overall, the event was filled with a lively energy and went smoothly. Bar goers were able to enjoy good live music and have a drink and a tasty treat before their nights out on town!

If you missed out on this awesome night, here’s a recap video Marilyn Huitron!

Video Credit: Marilyn Huitron

Here’s some more pics of the show and playlist featuring some songs from the artists who performed! As of now Girldad has not released any music. Keep an eye out for their releases by following them! Make sure you show some support to these local artists by giving their music a listen checking out their Instagrams!

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Gaming With Motion Sickness

If you’re anything like me, you love to immerse yourself in a great story. Maybe, you even wish to take part in the story. There is no better medium for this than video games. When you play video games, you are the main character. You get to influence and take part in the story. But if you’re even more like me, you get motion sick doing just about anything.

Do you stop playing games?

A good chunk of my own life has been trying figure out ways to keep the world still and keep my lunch down. Take a look at some tips I have gathered and see what games you could play if you want to completely avoid motion sickness, and I’ll also include some titles that I have overcome motion sickness to enjoy.

How to Overcome Motion Sickness

Feeling the spins coming on can feel like a mood killer. You’re enjoying your time playing video games, or doing anything, and all of sudden you’re lightheaded and need to take a break. That might just be exactly what you need to do! Take a 10 minute break, or longer, and get back to it when you’re ready!

Another way to keep this sickness at bay is to have a bubbly drink on hand (preferably non~alcoholic). My personal favorite drink to keep on hand is some sort of sparkling water. Of course, a soda or bubbly juice would work just fine.

There is also the tried and true method of chewing mint. Now, most people probably don’t have a mint plant on hand, so you might just have to settle for the next best thing. Try chewing some mint gum or use a breath mint. Peppermint is known to help with nausea, and take it from me, this is a life changing discovery in all areas of life.

What Can You Play, What Could You Play

Often games that follow your movement as the player can be dizzying. Whether it’s first or third person, a camera with a lot movement can trigger a persons motion sickness. These are typically 3D games. This means that the world surrounds the player.

The opposite of a 3D game is a 2D game. Rather than being completely in the middle of a a game’s world , you are now looking at the game from above or to the side. Typically, these titles feature a still camera. The player moves around the screen without it moving. Some great examples of 2D titles are the farming simulators Stardew Valley (pictured below) and Animal Crossing and the classic Nintendo title Super Mario Bros.

Though I may have trouble keeping my head straight when it comes to 3D games, I have found myself employing the earlier tips mentioned in the beginning in order to enjoy the games.

There is the ever classic survival game Minecraft that I have found myself enjoying over the years. Though, this is the game I have found myself having to turn away from the most. It is available on any and all gaming platforms. Next, I have found myself gravitating to the post nuclear war series Fallout. Which includes 4 3D games you may play on a console of your choosing (except for Nintendo). Fallouts earliest releases are 2D games, which are available to purchase through Steam to play on PC (or you can search for a physical copy). Lastly Sims, the life simulator, is a 3D game that takes no time at all to get used to. In fact, the camera does follow you with every movement, but allows you to watch the characters and choose when to move the camera.

With this new information, go and fire up that console, and have a good time.

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Indie Sleaze is Back

Although I was in the first few years of my adolescence when Indie Sleaze was on the rise, I can still remember some distinct sounds of the music from that era. My little iPod nano was my saving grace during the bus rides home from school, it carried a whole world of artists with whom I spent myself creating fantasies of me being cool, older, and reminiscent of the people I would find myself reposting on my Tumblr. These people and this world were drenched in smeared mascara eye makeup, glitter, American Apparel and parties.

The thing, however, that really tied these components of the era together was the music. There were so many versions and approaches to pop, punk and electronic music with artists like the Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Crystal Castles and Justice being among the many to mention. There was a dirtiness, messiness, and grittiness that captured this sound. It was an overall attitude. To be an influence or a titan in this scene was to not care but have party energy and at 13 years old these were the people who I wanted to hang out with.

I grew older. The era had passed, and many new trends came and went throughout the years. My Tumblr had long been retired, American Apparel had shut down its business, and music had gone through its many evolutions as it always does.

It wasn’t until these past 2 years that I began noticing some very familiar sounds emerging from music and in the normal fashion of trends, it started to rub off on pop culture through the outlets of fashion and makeup. It was crazy to think about how the early post pandemic world brought us trends such as the clean girl aesthetic and music reflecting that cleanliness in the world of overly produced almost too perfect pop hits. The shift started to happen and interestingly enough it was an indie sleaze icon who was helping to lead this and scuff up the pop music scene and make it sleazy again. Charli XCX.

I had listened to her music since I was 14 and was always a fan. She captured this sort of MySpace era of aesthetics, performed her music in small, grimy venues and raves, had the cool, effortlessly messy hair, and party girl energy. She was a party girl and I wanted to party with her, so did her small following at the time. With her new album last year entitled BRAT, the shift started to become more clear to me. She wasn’t the only artist that delivering the sleaziness. Artist such as The Dare, Coco and Clair Clair and Snow Strippers have brought forth a modern iteration of this sound that has shifted the pop culture landscape.

So, where is Indie sleaze now, and how does it show up today? It is evident in the music in we listen to today, but how else? Well we can see it in our fashion trends as well. Throughout the original timeline of the era. There were different approaches to what Indie Sleaze fashion was but there was one thing for sure that it had to have which is that effortlessness and grime. There is a DIY element where there is a a lot of intention but also careless.

It’s always fun when old trends reemerge and have a chance at a second life. Although it could be replicated through music and fashion, there will always be something fresh about it. It is a direct reflection on the current time we all live in. Trends mirror what is happening all around us. Indie Sleaze has come to party once more and for those of us like me who were too young to attend, the time is finally here.

I wanted to share a little playlist of songs I used to listen to during the first wave of Indie Sleaze along with some of the newer stuff that’s coming out right now!

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3 Interesting stores to visit in LA

This past week I went to Fairfax and Melrose in LA just to visit a few stores that I enjoy going to when I’m out there. Melrose and Fairfax or streets in Los Angeles, that are known to have many fashion retailer stores on the streets whether its secondhand designer, buy, sell, trade stores, independent fashion companies, or just designer retailers. Wherever you go on Melrose and Fairfax you are bound to find something new and unique whether it’s a food place, record shop, or even a clothing store.

1. Brain Dead Studios

if you enjoy high-quality fabrics and unique designs, then you might want to go check out Brain Dead Studios. They are located on Fairfax and their shop is very unique. Not only is it a showroom for their product but it also has a theater in the building where they hold movie nights. You can visit their website to see what movies they are going to be showing how much tickets cost. With having the movie theater in the same building, they also own their own concession stand where customers can buy drinks, food, and Eivan shirts that are specifically designed for Brain Dead Studio’s movie theater. In addition to the movie theater, they also have their own café outside in the back of the building. Brain Dead Studios is a store that has more to offer than just clothes.

2. Heaven by Marc Jacobs

Heaven by Marc Jacobs is a very unique and store that I always enjoy visiting. They have such unique designs when it comes to their jewelry. Their clothes are very eye catching and their other accessories such as their bags are so pretty. I personally love going to this store not only for their products but also to see the other brands they carry. Instead of only selling their products they also sell different brand’s items as well. One of my favorite smaller brands that they carry is Gen 2. Gen 2 is ran by one of the employees who works at Heaven by Marc Jacobs. During my visit, I got to talk to Julia and Shannon, who are employees at the store. I asked them a few questions such as what made them want to work at Heaven. Julia replied, “ I had previous experience in high retail in the environment seemed pretty laid-back. I also really like the customers in the type of customers that come in. I like that the store attracts a more younger crowd.” Shannon said, “ I used to come to the store a lot when I first moved here and I wanted to work somewhere that was more fun and also somewhere I actually want to be at. I came in one day and asked if they were hiring. It was just the right place right time.” I also asked which item in the store is their personal favorite item. Julia responded, “ A few of my favorite items in the store right now is our D squared vintage hat and the Heaven camo dress. It’s funny because when I first started here, I wanted that camo dress so bad that after I started, I ended up getting that as my first purchase.” Shannon said, “ My favorite item in the store are the brown Margaret boots. I really like those boots because they kind of remind me more of a cowboy style. I wanted them so bad when I was living in Texas.” I enjoyed talking to the employees every time I come in because they’re so friendly and helpful when it comes to finding the right pieces to buy.

3. 2nd Street

2nd Street is a store that buys from people who come in and sell their clothes and either offers them a percentage back in trade or cash. 2nd Street specializes in streetwear, high end designer brands, and vintage. The store has an item for everybody, whether a person is looking for something cheap and up to trend or a little on the pricier side for higher name brand items. I enjoyed looking through their vintage section because they have a good variety of different T-shirts, hats, outerwear, and jeans for a decent price. I’ve seen their other sections such as their designated racks for their higher and items, like Balenciaga and they have a great variety that’s not priced too bad. You could find items from all over at 2nd Street. Pieces from the last two stores I talked about will sometimes pop up here. This is a great store to go to when you’re looking for something that you don’t know what that something is yet because you can get lost in the items this store has curated.

These are just three stores that I mentioned you can find on Melrose and Fairfax. There are so many other shops out there that I could talk about, but I really enjoy going to these three. I have picked up pieces from these stores that caught my eye and I’ve gone to events at these stores and enjoyed myself during that time.

If you would like to see my last experience, going to these stores feel free to click here to watch my review of these stores.

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Can’t get enough of these shows or movies? Read these books!

Have you ever finished a show or movie and wished you could experience something like it again? If you have, this is for you. Keep reading to find books similar to some movies/shows you love! Whatever genre you’re looking for, there is a book that can replicate that feeling.

Romance 🩷

Gossip Girl Magnolia Parks

Both the series and the novel have similar themes—high society, “whodunit” mysteries, Drama, and huge parties—that follow wealthy friends as they navigate their lives. Much like Gossip Girl, Magnolia Parks dives into relationships, betrayals, and scandals that come with growing up in a world where reputation is everything.

Where to watch: Netflix, Max, and Hulu
Buy the Book: Magnolia Parks by Jessa Hastings

Gilmore Girls The Pumpkin Spice Café

Both the series and the novel have similar themes, like small towns, tight-knit bonds, and cafés. Both are cozy and comforting, with not a lot of drama. If you love the warm, familiar feeling of Gilmore Girls, this novel will be the perfect escape.

Where to Watch: Netflix, Hulu, Disney+
Buy the Book: The Pumpkin Spice Cafe by Laurie Gilmore

Mystery/Crime 🔍

Criminal Minds The Naturals

Both the series and the novel are about FBI agents solving crimes. They’re both quick and easy to get through, keeping your attention the entire way through, and have a psychological thriller aspect. Criminal Minds focuses more on skilled agents, while The Naturals is about teenagers who were picked by the FBI to help solve crimes.

Where to Watch: Hulu, Paramount+, Sling TV,
Buy the Book: The Naturals by Jennifer Lynn Barnes

Knives Out The Inheritance Games

The movie and the novel involve wealthy, dysfunctional families, games, twists, and secrets. They will do whatever it takes to get the inheritance. Both are high-stakes and fast-paced. Knives Out is about solving a murder, while The Inheritance Games is about a series of games a girl has to go through to claim her fortune.

Where to Watch: Amazon Prime, YouTube
Buy the Book: The Inheritance Games by Jennifer Lynn Barnes

Pretty Little Liars One of Us Is Lying

The show and the novel are similar because both focus on a murder where the main characters try to figure out who did it. In both, the characters are being watched and blackmailed into doing whatever the unknown person wants. Pretty Little Liars and One of Us Is Lying follow groups of teens whose lives change when their darkest secrets are threatened to be revealed.

Where to Watch: Hulu, Max
Buy the Book: One Of Us Is Lying by Karen M. McManus

Fantasy 🔮

Divergent Shatter Me

The movie and the novel have similar aspects that follow a fight for freedom, dystopian settings, and different economic statuses. Both have strong female leads and are fighting against a controlling Government. In Divergent, Tris uncovers secrets while navigating a world divided into factions. In Shatter Me, Juliette fights against the cruel reestablishment with her lethal powers.

Where to Watch: YouTube, Amazon Prime
Buy the Book: Shatter Me by Tahereh Mafi

The Witcher Throne of Glass

Both the show and the novel follow skilled fighters on missions, in magical worlds, with intense action. The novel leans more towards young adults, while the show is for a more mature audience. While The Witcher has more mature themes like politics and tough life choices, Throne of Glass has thrilling battles with personal growth.

Where to Watch: Netflix
Buy the book: Throne of Glass by Sarah J. Maas

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Whether you need some romance, mystery, or fantasy, these books will capture that same feeling. My personal favorites would have to be Magnolia Parks or The Naturals. If I have missed any that you would like to share, be sure to comment. I hope this helped you find your next read!

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For Your Review – Future Stars Podcast

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In this episode of the VC Social podcast, three friends, ⁠Raya⁠, ⁠Cristian⁠, and ⁠Devonte⁠, share music with each other, spotlighting artists with under 500,000 monthly listeners. From musicians in the community to musicians worldwide, there is so much undiscovered talent and, together, they are here to share it with you. Hopefully, you can find some new music and new favorite artists over the next 45 minutes.

Interested in the songs played? Here is the playlist, which is not in order of discussion, but it’s all there for your listening enjoyment!

If you want to see more from this trio, you can check out their socials!

⁠Raya’s Instagram⁠

⁠Cristian’s Instagram⁠

⁠Devonte’s Instagram

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The Fight Against Male Flight

BookTok is an incurable disease.

BookTok is just women who are functionally illiterate.

BookTok [pisses me off] so bad, it’s all like all dumb [people] gathered at the same place.

All I’m really saying is that all of the women on “BookTok” need to be banned from continuing to “read.”

Whether you agree with these comments or not, there is a conversation in them that must be had. 

I want to begin this conversation by addressing that I will be using only male and female genders, along with stereotypical gendered behaviors, to discuss a broader societal concern. However, that does not wholly remove other genders from this conversation. Furthermore, this is not a hate piece about men. It’s more so a call to action; a hope that they aren’t left behind.

Are you familiar with “male flight?” It’s possible that you don’t know the phrase, but you’ve watched it happen. Simply put, male flight refers to the phenomenon where, as an activity, occupation, or product is increasingly associated with women, men leave. It is often coupled with the fear of being seen as unmasculine and is likely an unconscious action. During male flight not all men leave, of course, but it is a big enough shift for it to be named.

Now that you’re familiar with the term, what does all of this have to do with BookTok hate comments? I am so glad you asked! I would love to give you a short and sweet history lesson.

Young Man Reading by Jacob van Loo

In the days of Christian Europe, reading and accessing books was not for just anyone; it was for wealthy men. It wasn’t until modern times that learning to read and having access to books became more widely available. Still, women’s reading habits were monitored and restricted. It wasn’t until “the turn of the twentieth century, women’s access to higher learning and the appearance of mass culture, for mentalities to evolve. Today, the relation to books has been completely reversed, as the world of books is generally considered as feminine” (Matamoros).

Now, in the United States, at least, women are free to consume the content they wish to. With the rise of social media, women can connect with other women, form communities, and share ideas. It all feels positive until you remember the comments from the beginning. 

The more women find interest in reading, the more it is seen as a feminine hobby rather than a masculine one. Thus, the more you will see male flight. There are many issues with males refusing to read; one being that they are missing out on vital information that can help them understand the world, their peers, their partners, their families, and themselves. Studies already show that men struggle to consume content from perspectives unlike their own. Women’s Prize released an article sharing, “research confirms that while women read books by women and men equally, men overwhelmingly reject books written by women in favour of male authors.” Men are actively leaving a space that is vital to their growth. 

The fear of male flight is not unwarranted. When men flee a space, its value is lessened. Though I wish that were not the case, the more women are centered in the writing world, the more literature, books, and the career of writing will be devalued. This could lead to less funding, less pay, less attention, and even less education. Men fleeing the hobby of reading is damaging enough, but then those actively hating on women who enjoy reading makes male flight truly harmful to everyone involved. 

The discourse and hate around women’s reading habits, especially online, seem to form around romance novels. While many women enjoy romance novels, it’s not the only genre they engage with. And, despite what many may think, fiction and non-fiction hold equal importance. Though fiction can be more flowery and feel frivolous or shallow, it often takes important concepts and makes them more digestible and entertaining. One can learn just as much from a self-help book as one can from a hero’s journey fiction novel. The assumption that romance has no value should be concerning to all. And while there is a very real conversation to be had about the types of romance that exist and the age levels that people are consuming those novels, it doesn’t then mean all romance is bad and trivial. 

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As a woman in the book industry, I fear what will happen to literacy rates and the world of reading if men deem it worthless. I started my career in books at Ventura College, learning the foundations of literature with Professor John Guelcher. I sat down with him to discuss this issue of male flight, asking him his thoughts and solutions to this very real issue.

I opened the conversation by asking if he had seen a shift in the number of men versus the number of women in his classes. He noted that his classes have always leaned female, now with rates as high as 75-80% female. When I asked why he believes that to be the case, he brought up that in the past thirty years, the way higher education is structured has shifted to a more stereotypically feminine way of teaching. There is less of a focus on competition and more of a focus on group work and connection. Without the competition as a motivator, Guelcher thinks men are struggling.  

Guelcher: Males have a harder time succeeding in the academic institution as they are constructed now. I think that’s what’s happening in the classroom. 

Guelcher then continued to bring up other influences on male flight.

Guelcher: As it pertains to the specific discipline of English, I think that you also have this privileging of STEM. It’s this default thing you should do. If I ask my students what their major is, no one ever says the Humanities. They say, “Oh, Business.” “Why are you a business major?” “I just wanna make money.” 

This comment sparked my interest because all I have seen in recent years is a push for more women in STEM. Even with the encouragement, though, “America needs still more diversity in STEM fields…Currently, women represent just 10% to 25% of the semiconductor industry, and historically underrepresented groups make up only 20%” (Women in STEM). So, while women are entering STEM, it is still seen as a worthwhile pursuit for men, and the humanities are falling to the wayside. I don’t say this to devalue or discourage STEM involvement, I merely say it to say that both are valuable and necessary, and we can’t leave either behind because women want to be a part. 

Whittington: Unfortunately, if men are not actively engaging in literature and aren’t interested in it, it will not be seen as a worthy pursuit or usage of time. Which then eventually shifts to women who are authors being paid less because it’s not as important. When it is a male-dominated field, then it is important, and it is worth paying a lot of money for. And as we see this shift to it being very female-centered, there is a worry about how female authors are going to survive. There is that kind of slight fear of, “what happens to us?” 

Guelcher: I think there are two levels. There’s the existential level of literature being valuable, why literature is valuable. And the problem of males not accessing this beautiful thing, this important thing, that is what makes us really understand the world we live in. Those of us who appreciate literature know how valuable it is to read a book and if there’s a major portion of the population who don’t understand that, that’s a loss. That’s a huge loss, existentially. On the capitalistic side of things, the amount of money that people are making for their chosen pursuit, yeah, absolutely, it makes complete sense that if males aren’t doing it, our society doesn’t value it. That is the reality. If males are into it, commerce will go and back it up and help prop it up. But if it’s only females, we dismiss it. That’s a real problem. 

Whittington: Do you think that there’s any way to re-engage, specifically young men, in literature? 

Guelcher: I mean, that’s a million-dollar question right there, but I think it’s convincing people it’s a worthwhile pursuit. I have a master’s in literature. My PhD is in composition, but I went pretty high up in literature, and so I value it, obviously. But like my brother, who’s a smart guy, for a long time, he proudly would say, “I’ve never read a book. I’ve only read textbooks. I’ve never read a book.” And he would hang his hat on that, and I’m like, just read a freaking book. This is a great book. You should read it. You’d love it. He’s like, “No, I don’t read,” and he’s smart. I know a lot of guys like that, and I think part of it is figuring out a way to get them to see it as a valuable pursuit. How to do that is a good question. I think, you know, you look at what males who don’t read like. Podcasts are big. Like if somebody like Joe Rogan goes on and says, “Hey, man, you gotta read this Barbara Kingsolver book. This is freaking great.” And I think shorter fiction might be a way to do it, because our attention spans seem better for that.

He continued, sharing a story from his visit to Canada.

Guelcher: In Canada, they were all talking about books the way we talk about TV shows. And I was like, “Whoa, what is this place doing?” Everybody was talking about books, like we talked about TV, and that really struck me. And then they were talking about similar books. And so I think maybe, you get somebody who males trust, who convinces them that this is a worthwhile pursuit, and then kind of all talk about it, be able to share ideas. What makes literature classes good? It’s everybody talking about the same book. And that seems to be one of the problems with our information age, it’s so rare that we have a common book we’re reading.

He’s right. The reason that BookTok and Bookstagram are so popular is that they provide a space for women to read books together as a community. If men began to authentically engage in these spaces, it might remove the stigma and broaden their horizons. 

Guelcher: An important thing, too, I think, is to maybe embrace the audiobook as well. I think there’s a study done recently that showed that listening to an audiobook and reading a book are generally doing the same thing. So yeah, to demystify that and not make it feel like it’s a bad thing might help people feel like, “Oh, I’m not weak for listening to an audiobook. I’m not a failure.” I think if more people listened to audiobooks, they’d understand more of like, “Oh, a deep and engaging story is valuable,” you know?

Whittington: I think you just have to destigmatize that audiobook listening is not actually processing a book, because that’s been a big conversation online. You can’t say you’ve read a book or you’ve consumed a book if you listened to it; no, you have! If you’re actively listening, you have.

Guelcher: Is it the exact same? No, but yeah, pretty darn close. It’s closer than you know.

Guelcher and I concluded our conversation still with the knowledge that male flight very much does exist, and this may occur in the world of literature. Let’s be honest, we were never going to solve this issue in an article or an interview, but we can bring awareness to it. Maybe gift a book this year. Maybe pick up a book yourself or talk about a book with a friend. If you’re really ambitious, take an English class at a local college (if you’re in the Ventura College area I highly recommend a glass with Guelcher). Also, be aware of how you and others are speaking about women’s hobbies, like reading. Are you or them being unnecessarily disparaging, or are there valid critiques? Are you giving the hobby a gender or leaving it open for all to enjoy?

It might sound silly, but the Humanities are vital to the progression of humanity. We can’t let something as important as reading and literature disappear just because women love it. And the more we have this conversation, the more awareness is brought, and hopefully, the more solutions are created.

If you’re interested in learning more about male flight, Medium has a good article on the topic. And if you are a visual/auditory learner, The Book Leo has a great video essay on this male flight; she is actually the reason I wanted to do this research myself. If you’ve made it this far, I hope you learned something new. If you didn’t, I hope you at least enjoyed it.

And with that, though it’s been a heavy one, I’ve been me, and this has been lovely.